A new mother is facing loads of criticism after she forgave her cheating husband.
And while affairs may be common, this story is a little different.
The anonymous British woman sought help from Mumsnet. And that’s where she asked other mothers for advice. Moreover, the 34-year-old doubted her decision on whether or not she should continue living with her husband.
With a relationship that spans 15 years, the new mother explained how they shared two children. However, the couple became quite distant after the delivery.
From going on ‘only boys’ trips to leaving her alone on countless occasions, the gruesome details about their relationship are going viral. And we’ve rounded up the latest scoop for you.
New mother urged to leave cheating husband after a 10-month affair
Just weeks after delivering a child, a new mother is getting plenty of criticism for pardoning her cheating spouse. According to reports, the 34-year-old excused her partner after his 10-month affair.
The woman, who wishes to remain anonymous, reveals how her partner told her about his affair. Unbelievingly, he explained how he began seeing another young woman, just weeks after delivering a second child.
Clueless about what to do, the new mom sought help from a mother’s platform on Facebook. And that’s where she asked for other moms’ advice. Similarly, she explains how she continually doubts her marriage with her childhood sweetheart.
Husband cheats on childhood sweetheart, despite the 15-year relationship
Shockingly, the couple has been together for a staggering 15 years. And if you’d think that amount of time is enough to develop trust, you’re sadly mistaken.
Meanwhile, the couple has two kids. One is aged at 5 years while the other is just one. The British woman also revealed how the couple has become ‘very distant from each other, especially after her child’s birth.
Today, they sleep on separate beds. But that’s not all. Her cheating husband leaves her alone on countless occasions, claiming his need for ‘boys’ trips.’
British woman finds out about harrowing cheating details
The mother of two reveals how she found out about her husband’s mystery woman. And it surely wasn’t an easy pill to digest.
She says that it was way back in March when she found out about her husband’s mistress. Similarly, she says that her husband begged her to forgive him. He went on claiming that it was nothing but ‘pure sex.’ Moreover, he did not love his mistress and it was in fact the other woman who had feelings for him.
Therefore, she says she was hopeless. And she had no other choice but to forgive her cheating husband for his wrongdoing.
So when the 34-year-old resorted to the forum to question her decision, she faced plenty of criticism. The new mom wrote:
‘My husband and I have always shared the most loving, close, trusting relationship. We love each other so much.’
‘We were sleeping on separate beds and our sex life also diminished,’ she claims
It seems as if the new mom portrayed a sense of guilt.point 439 |
She appeared to blame herself for her husband’s wrongdoing.point 53 | Hence, she went on explaining how she breastfed her child, co-sleeping with their baby.point 127 | As a result, they both slept on separate beds.point 165 | And in the end, their sex life also deteriorated.point 206 | 1
Unfortunately, her husband continued with his selfish behavior. He went out with friends, drank, partied, and vacationed all day long. For that reason, she felt unsupported because she alone had to look after her two children.
She went on to reveal how most of her relationship was going in a downhill direction. And on that note, most of the parents started slamming her cheating spouse. Above all, they urged her to leave him.
The majority of the forum held the opinion that a one-time episode may be forgivable but an entire affair just wasn’t. But what do you think? Does he actually deserve a second chance?
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